{"id":54,"date":"2017-01-27T22:33:06","date_gmt":"2017-01-27T22:33:06","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.ywcahawaiiisland.org\/?page_id=54"},"modified":"2022-07-12T15:13:57","modified_gmt":"2022-07-13T01:13:57","slug":"teen-dating","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/www.ywcahawaiiisland.org\/teen-dating\/","title":{"rendered":"Teen Dating"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"wpb-content-wrapper\">[vc_row][vc_column width=&#8221;2\/3&#8243;][vc_single_image image=&#8221;624&#8243; title=&#8221;HEALTHY TEEN DATING&#8221;][vc_row_inner][vc_column_inner width=&#8221;1\/2&#8243;][vc_column_text]\n<h3>Do You?<\/h3>\n<ul class=\"check-list\">\n<li>Cry a lot<\/li>\n<li>Are upset a lot<\/li>\n<li>Apologize a lot<\/li>\n<li>Get scared<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column_inner][vc_column_inner width=&#8221;1\/2&#8243;][vc_column_text]\n<h3>Does Your Partner?<\/h3>\n<ul class=\"check-list\">\n<li>Calls you terrible names<\/li>\n<li>Makes threats<\/li>\n<li>Tries to keep you away from friends or family<\/li>\n<li>Uses drugs or alcohol a lot<\/li>\n<li>Tries to control you<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column_inner][\/vc_row_inner][vc_column_text]\n<h3 class=\"lead\">Remember Your Rights!<\/h3>\n<ul>\n<li>It is your right to feel safe and comfortable in your relationship<\/li>\n<li>To explain and discuss this to your partner<\/li>\n<li>You are the one to decide the kind of relationship you want.<\/li>\n<li>You have the right not to be touched without your permission.<\/li>\n<li>If you cannot establish an acceptable relationship, it might be best to walk away<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h5><\/h5>\n[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column][vc_column width=&#8221;1\/3&#8243;][vc_column_text el_class=&#8221;no-margin-top box-gray&#8221;]\n<h3>LOVE IS RESPECT!<br \/>\nNO SHAME \u2014 JUST CALL<\/h3>\n<p><strong>1.800.799.SAFE<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You are precious. You deserve information to make good choices. The decisions you make TODAY will guide you to become a vibrant, self-reliant, happy, and successful woman in years to come.[\/vc_column_text]<style> style=\"height:60px;\"<\/style><div class=\"vcex-spacing wpex-w-100 wpex-clear\" style=\"height:60px;\"><\/div><h4 class=\"vcex-heading vcex-heading-plain vcex-module wpex-heading wpex-text-2xl wpex-text-left vc_custom_1487115965483\"><span class=\"vcex-heading-inner wpex-inline-block\">Teen Resources<span class=\"vcex-heading-icon vcex-heading-icon-right vcex-icon-wrap wpex-ml-15\"><span class=\"ticon ticon-file-pdf-o\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/h4>[vc_column_text]<a href=\"https:\/\/www.ywcahawaiiisland.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/CSWFS-Directory-2021-2022.pdf\">URGENT Services Directory for Families<\/a><br \/>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/www.drjillmurray.com\">Dr. Jill Murray, psychologist resources<\/a><br \/>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/www.uexpress.com\/dearabby\/2015\/11\/28\/1\/trust-is-a-one-way-street-for\">Dear Abbey<\/a><br \/>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/www.thehotline.org\/\">Domestic Abuse Hotline<\/a>[\/vc_column_text]<style> style=\"height:60px;\"<\/style><div class=\"vcex-spacing wpex-w-100 wpex-clear\" style=\"height:60px;\"><\/div><div class=\"theme-button-wrap textcenter theme-button-expanded-wrap wpex-clr\"><a href=\"\/support\/donate\" class=\"vcex-button theme-button flat large align-center expanded expanded\" title=\"Support the YWCA\"><span class=\"vcex-button-inner theme-button-inner\">Support the YWCA<\/span><\/a><\/div> [\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row][vc_column width=&#8221;1\/3&#8243;][vc_video link=&#8221;https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/cQWEcR447Ts&#8221;][vc_empty_space][vc_video link=&#8221;https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/Icnc-IitDxU&#8221;][\/vc_column][vc_column width=&#8221;1\/3&#8243;][vc_video link=&#8221;https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/f6U-BK5wx-o&#8221;][vc_empty_space][vc_video link=&#8221;https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/T9pLJpN6cOs&#8221;][\/vc_column][vc_column width=&#8221;1\/3&#8243;][vc_video link=&#8221;https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/53KiybJB6Z8&#8243;][vc_empty_space][vc_video link=&#8221;https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/oPpmLXJeTSo&#8221;][\/vc_column][vc_column][vc_column_text]\n<p class=\"small\">Video credits: Hawai`i State Department of Health, Sexual Violence Prevention Program; Sexual Violence Prevention Committee\u2014East Hawai`i Community Action Team, Hilo High School\u2014Performing Arts Learning Center; Hawai`i Youth Business Center; Grassroots Community Development Group; Na Leo \u2018O Hawai`i, Inc.; The Wave 92.7FM; Hawai`i Office of the Prosecuting Attorney. Funding: Hawai`i Alliance for Community Health; Hawai`i County Council Members Ilagan &amp; Yoshimoto; Hawai`i State Commission on the Status of Women.<\/p>\n[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row][vc_column][vc_column_text]\n<h3>DR. JILL MURRAY<\/h3>\n<p>Jill Murray, renowned psychologist, has talked to hundreds of you in intermediate and high schools. Her talks on Teen Dating Violence are inspiring and we hope you were able to hear her.<\/p>\n<p>In addition to her lectures across the U.S. she has written several helpful books on the subject that are available on her website:<\/p>\n<p>You can <a href=\"http:\/\/www.drjillmurray.com\">reach her or view videos on her website<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>HERE ARE SOME OF HER BOOKS:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Teens &amp; Relationships<\/li>\n<li>Does Chaos and Drama Run in Your Life<\/li>\n<li>Taking Your Life Back RIGHT NOW<\/li>\n<li>SIX Universal Truths That Will Change Your Life TODAY!<\/li>\n<li>Keys to a Healthy, Loving Relationship<\/li>\n<li>Are you in an Unhealthy Relationship?<\/li>\n<li>Why You\u2019re With Mr. Wrong (and how to get it Right)<\/li>\n<li>Dr. Jill Murray\u2019s Relationships 101<\/li>\n<li>Destructive Relationships<\/li>\n<li>But He Never Hit me \u2014 The Devastating Cost of Non-Physical Abuse to Girls and Women<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n[\/vc_column_text][vc_column_text]Your school counselors may also have some advice on what you can do.<\/p>\n<p><strong>HELPFUL PHONE NUMBERS:<\/strong><br \/>\nPolice, Fire, Medical \u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026911<br \/>\nPolice Non-Emergency\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026935-3311<br \/>\nACCESS Line\/Crisis Hotline \u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026800-753-6879<br \/>\nNational Suicide Hotline \u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026.273-TALK<br \/>\nTREVOR (LGBTQ) Lifeline \u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026800-488-7386<br \/>\nRape\/Sexual Assault Crisis Line \u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026935-0677<br \/>\nSexual Assault Support Services 24\/7\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026961-3877<br \/>\nBig Island Juvenile Intake and Assessment Center (BIJIAC) (24\/7)\u2026557-9004[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column][\/vc_row]\n<\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>[vc_row][vc_column width=&#8221;2\/3&#8243;][vc_single_image image=&#8221;624&#8243; title=&#8221;HEALTHY TEEN DATING&#8221;][vc_row_inner][vc_column_inner width=&#8221;1\/2&#8243;][vc_column_text] Do You? 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